+5 Ring of Intimidation

ok.. so three times this week... I've been referred to as being 'intimidating'...

I've turned to the Man totally gobsmacked with jaw dropped and said 'really? am I intimidating?'

to which of course he responds with 'not to me'....

well that was no help at all... and yet I have near perfect strangers telling me that they find me intimidating but that can't exactly explain why they find me that way...

I mean I know I generally speak my mind and most of the time can be brutally honest... but seriously??


I don't see it and I don't get it... if anyone has any insight...lemme know...