Just don't give up... I'm workin' it out... Please don't give in... I wont let you down

So going on from the last post of the What's Wrong with Me...

I got a different answer while on the phone the other day which was pretty much just the opposite of my own question...

What's wrong with them?

What is it that all those people had in common that they continue to treat me like this and what is it that prevents them rom going that last step...

I dunno that just sounds like a transference of blame which I wanted to try to stay away from... because it makes it sound like I'm not taking any of thhe blame for the issue and that I think that I'm perfect or that there isn't any problems with me...

Each of the people had their own situations that they've had to way against whether or not they were going to take that final step... and in all the cases they've come to the conclusion that they love me but that I'm not worth the effort of committing.

So again I come back to what is it that's wrong with me and why is it that people seem to shy away from that sort of commitment.

And I'm not just talking about sexual partners or lovers or anything of that nature I'm talking about friends as well when they decided that they can't handle being my friend in a time of crisis or elation...

I've had people stop being friends with me for both reasons... I was extremely happy last year around this time and I had a friend that couldn't really take my being happy... I wasn't flaunting it in their face I was just being happy... and they distanced themselves from me because of it.

So what's wrong with all of us...

If you're in a situation that you hate, doing a job you dislike, living in a place you've never really liked, and you have found that you could be happy elsewhere... why stay in the spot that makes unhappy?

Why?